In early May, a distinctive, free 10-week boxing class for boys, titled King David Men’s Boxing, was launched at the OPEX CDA gym in Coeur d’Alene. Recently, the program culminated in a series of energetic and enjoyable sparring sessions for boys aged 9 to 11. The participants boxed in three rounds of two minutes each, cheered on by family and friends nearby.
This initiative transcended regular sports activities; it was aimed at nurturing young boys into virtuous men, fostering brotherhood and spiritual strength as they prepared for life’s challenges. A dozen boys joined the program and over 90% completed it.
The concept was developed by Jason Chavez, a Coeur d’Alene Catholic and founder of the nonprofit Communio CDA, who sought to offer a Christ-centered boxing course to his community. “We need to guide boys towards being constructive, or else they may become destructive,” Chavez remarked. “Through boxing, we help young men and fathers unite in faith and strength.”
The Need for Masculinity
Chavez noted that young men today receive mixed messages about their identities. Mark Griswold, a local father of three, echoed this sentiment, commenting on how societal perceptions of “toxic masculinity” have diminished vital rites of passage that traditionally helped boys mature into men.
Inspired by his devotion to God and desire to foster brotherhood among males, Chavez named the program after David from the Old Testament, recognized for his bravery and faith. He also serves as a campus minister at Holy Family Catholic School.
Christian Generosity as a Foundation
Chavez sought support for his mission and found a strong network in the Christian community. The OPEX CDA gym, owned by Brandon and Katie Burchfield, provided facilities at no charge, while boxing coach Phil Hostak contributed his mentorship and funding for boxing equipment.
“I see this class as a movement to instill discipline and help boys grow into strong young men rooted in Catholic values,” Hostak, a lifelong Catholic, said. He encouraged his friend John Nolan to join in, who was eager to share his boxing knowledge with the boys.
Building Skills and Character
Over the course of 10 weeks, participants advanced from basic techniques to live sparring, gaining confidence and skills as they confronted challenges. “I learned to protect myself,” shared 9-year-old Kohanim Chavez, who enjoyed the experience alongside his father.
Several mothers expressed their appreciation for the program, recognizing its importance for character development. Kara Michael, who recently lost her husband, emphasized that her son Wyatt’s participation was meaningful and a way to build strength and leadership.
Conclusion: Faith Over Trophies
At the program’s conclusion, rather than trophies, each boy received a cross from Paul Grayhek as a symbol for their spiritual journey. “It inspires the boys and families to profess their faith proudly,” Grayhek commented.
Chavez aspires for the boxing initiative to flourish, seeking more support and additional classes in the region. “This is not just a sport; it’s a foundation for future fathers, husbands, and strong individuals,” he stated. “These boys are learning to stand up for what’s right in a world that often misguides.”
