Kendra Wilkinson Reflects on Her Relationship with Hugh Hefner
Kendra Wilkinson recently opened up about her time spent with the late Hugh Hefner, sharing insights into how their relationship influenced her opinions on intimacy.
Struggles with Intimacy
During a recent episode of the “Amy & T.J.” podcast, the former star of “The Girls Next Door” admitted, “I still struggle with my relationships and my views on sex.” At 39, she acknowledged the ongoing impact of her past experiences.
Therapy and Reflection
Wilkinson shared that she underwent significant therapy, revealing, “For the first time I’m admitting this, it was suggested that I might have a bit of a sex problem and struggle with thoughts about it.” She became one of Hefner’s girlfriends after meeting him at his 78th birthday bash when she was just 18 in 2004.
Time at the Playboy Mansion
Kendra lived in the Playboy Mansion for five years alongside other girlfriends, Holly Madison and Bridget Marquardt, before ending her relationship with Hefner in 2009. Reflection on her time there raised questions about the influence of that environment on her perception of relationships, as discussed with host T.J. Holmes.
Unhealthy Thoughts and Relationship Choices
Wilkinson acknowledged that her time with Hefner led to “unhealthy thoughts” about relationships. She expressed that this experience altered her approach to commitments, explaining, “I’m more of a fun idea type of person,” recognizing that while healthy relationships have different forms, she has chosen a unique path.
Marriage and Motherhood
In 2016, Wilkinson also discussed her infidelity during her relationship with Hefner, stating, “I was not there for romantic or marital reasons like Holly was; I just had a great time,” while maintaining she never cheated within the mansion. Following her relationship with Hefner, she married former NFL player Hank Baskett in 2009, with whom she has two children but divorced in 2018.
Finding Peace and Moving Forward
Now, after six years of therapy, Wilkinson is content with her life and describes herself as being in a “state of peace of mind.” She mentioned feeling fulfilled, emphasizing the importance of her role as a mother and drew upon fond memories of her “golden years” during her marriage. Despite past challenges, she praises her ex-husband as a fantastic father to their kids, ensuring a strong co-parenting relationship.
