Drama Surrounding Ashley Tisdale’s Mommy Group

There are certain moments that make you grateful not to be a millennial mom, and Ashley Tisdale’s experience with her mommy group is a prime example. Now known as Ashley Tisdale French, she seems to find herself dealing with drama reminiscent of “High School Musical.”

Speculating on Group Dynamics

It’s been rumored that Hilary Duff and Mandy Moore are part of Tisdale French’s mommy group, though she has frustratingly kept their identities a secret. In an essay for New York Magazine, Tisdale French reflects on how unexpected topics often become the focus of public conversation. “As a former child star, I find myself discussing things I never thought would be considered news,” she wrote.

Challenges of New Motherhood

During the pandemic, Tisdale French, who married composer Christopher French in 2014, faced the challenges of new motherhood without typical support like baby showers and prenatal classes. A friend eventually brought together a group of new moms, allowing them to connect with each other and share experiences.

High Expectations and Reality

She felt encouraged, energized by the company of women who understood the struggles of balancing motherhood with work. Tisdale French looked forward to sharing advice and fostering a supportive environment. However, social media soon burst her bubble, highlighting moments when she felt excluded from group gatherings.

Confronting the Clique Behavior

Feeling reminiscent of high school cliques, she decided to address the issue directly with a text to her group, stating, “This feels too high school for me, and I don’t want to be involved anymore.” However, her honesty was met with mixed reactions, with some members failing to acknowledge her concerns adequately.

Understanding Group Dynamics

Tisdale French emphasized the importance of being in a supportive environment, reflecting on her previous blog post where she noticed the formation of cliques within the group. “If a mom group consistently leaves you feeling hurt, it’s not serving you well,” she concluded.

Responses and Aftermath

While Tisdale French did not disclose any names, her essay sparked reactions, notably from Hilary Duff’s husband, Matthew Koma, who expressed his thoughts on social media. Koma’s retort hinted at deeper tensions within the group, leading to speculation about the dynamics at play.