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Dear Boss,
What obligations do you have to a company once you accept a job offer? Is it acceptable to leave a job shortly after starting?
After a decade in a fulfilling industry, I experienced burnout and transitioned to a higher-paying field. For the last 18 months, I’ve been working part-time with a successful startup. I’ve expressed my desire to switch to full-time, but my interest is mainly driven by better pay and benefits due to a tough job market, even though I don’t find the work particularly inspiring.
Recently, I was contacted regarding a dream job in a different field. Although I was excited, I was anxious about making a choice, especially since my current job offered me a full-time position the same day I interviewed. Ultimately, I didn’t get the dream job, so it was a non-issue.
I just received an official offer for a full-time role at my current company, but I saw another job that fits my interests ideally and decided to apply. Now I feel guilty about potentially leaving my new position shortly after starting.
Many believe I should prioritize my career over sentimentality regarding my current employer. What is your advice?
Your friends are right: it’s essential to follow what benefits your career. While there could be consequences, it’s critical to act in your own best interest.
Such situations are not uncommon. A better-paying job or one more aligned with your interests can emerge, and you’re not expected to decline for the sake of loyalty. Employers understand this dynamic, as they, too, can alter job offers due to financial constraints or restructuring.
Although you may risk damaging relationships when someone advocated on your behalf, it doesn’t strip you of your right to prioritize your own needs. Acknowledging your appreciation and expressing regret about the timing can help mitigate potential fallout.
While accepting another position may partially burn bridges, this impact is muted since your current role is already temporary. However, it’s still important to weigh this risk thoughtfully before making a decision.
